This program emphasizes hope rather than shame, unlike other programs I have been a part of.
James W.

You don’t have to battle every day. You can transcend this and be free from the compulsive drive to look at pornography.

Break away from perfectionism and learn how to strive for excellence, allowing yourself room for growth and self-compassion.

Use guilt as your superpower and shake off the chains of shame.
Testimonials
100% Shame-Free
I feel like this was the most shame-free program. Mostly because of the facilitator. I NEVER felt shamed. Which I believe is one of the main reasons there was so much success.
Doug H.
Authentic and Real
Others programs provided connection and conversation, but this provides truthful principles applied to my personal life experiences.
Jeremy C.
Life-Changing
Taught me about my emotions instead of the behavior. Learning about and picking apart the need for my behavior was life changing!
Taylor C.

Recovery is more than just ‘not viewing.’ Discover what true healing looks like.
I hear all the time, “We need to fix this pornography problem.”
You can’t fix pornography but you can heal destructive beliefs inside yourself.
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This is a totally different approach. We aren’t even playing the same game as therapy from the past. We will not focus on filters and band-aid techniques to lengthen sobriety. We focus on the deep work of recovery.
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Instead of working on getting rid of the behavior we will eliminate the need for the behavior.
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This will be some of the most disciplined and healing weeks of your life. We will dig deep each week as we explore the Counterfeit Emotions that have been keeping you stuck and transition to a life of authenticity and wholeness.
Real Men. Real Healing. Real Results.

These are the eight topics focused on in the program.

Recovery and sobriety may seem like the same path, but they differ greatly. Sobriety is about abstaining from harmful images and behaviors, while recovery is deeper – it’s the journey of healing, self-discovery, and transformation. Recovery is where genuine growth and resilience take root.

Guilt is the recognition that we’ve done something wrong and motivates us to make amends. Shame, however, is a belief that something is inherently wrong with who we are, leading to self-deprecation and isolation. Guilt says I did something wrong. Shame says I am wrong. Guilt says I made a mistake. Shame says my existence is a mistake.

Pain is an inevitable. Misery is optional. Pain is a part of life that leads us to growth and builds resilience. It holds purpose. Misery, however, is prolonged suffering, often stemming from our resistance to accepting and processing pain. Misery traps pain and pain was never meant to be held. It’s meant to be felt. When we feel it deeply we can let it go.

Love and lust are often mistaken for one another even though their foundations are worlds apart. Lust is driven by desire and physical attraction, often fleeting and self-focused. Love, on the other hand, is grounded in genuine care, selflessness, and commitment. It’s a deeper connection that grows over time, offering fulfillment and long-term emotional bonds.

Being nice often comes from a desire to please others, sometimes at the expense of our own needs or authenticity. It’s about avoiding conflict and seeking approval. Kindness is rooted in genuine care and compassion, doing what is truly helpful or beneficial, even when it’s uncomfortable or not immediately rewarding. Kindness is authentic, while niceness can be superficial.

Excellence is about striving to do our best while we grow. This includes embracing our mistakes and even relapses. Perfectionism, however, is driven by fear of failure and an impossible standard, often leading to burnout, criticism and self-destruction.

Pleasure is a momentary, sensory experience that often fades quickly. Joy, however, is a deep, lasting emotion that comes from within – it’s the contentment and fulfillment that enriches our lives. While pleasure is fleeting, joy offers a true sense of purpose and well-being.


How many times have you said,
“This is the last time.”
Never have to use those words again.